I 24m and my partner 25f have been now been together for 2 years. Our sex life is amazing, having sex 3-5 times a week and I'm going down on her more often than that.
I have so far received 3 "blowjobs" in our relationship, with most of the time she is down there ending in her feeling vulnerable and stopping halfway and opting to cuddle. I have never not been on with this and have done everything I could to comfort her and understand why she feels this way but have so far been unsuccessful.
I understand this is my issue and she in no way needs to give me head. I am not looking for ways to make her like it but rather to understand her. She has told me outright on several occasions that she really enjoys it, but given our experience I feel she is hiding something and my brain spirals to thinking it is dissatisfaction with me as a partner.
If anyone has any insight, similar experience or tips on how to talk to her about this and get her to open up, I would really appreciate it.
Thank you