In a potential close relationship, I kind of want to see if we align in values (like views on meaning of life and work / marriage / kids etc.) first before committing to it. I'm not sure if it's possible though, because 1) people can change a lot with time, 2) they may not practice what they preach and 3) it's impossible to match every aspect of your life with anyone, so I'm asking this to see how people get into close relationships.
Thanks for your response!