Tldr: How can i protect the entrance of my vagina from chafing caused by a shaved shaft?
For context, I'm East Asian and I'm not a hairy person. I have some hair, but a ton (I can tweeze, no need to wax, no bikini line lol). I've had lots of partners but they all have some pubic hair so I've never experienced real chafing from dudes who shave… Until now.
My current partner is a ride-or-die shaver. Hair grows a little bit up his shaft so he shaves it. I didn't notice an issue until we had sex like 5+ times all night long. It wasn't even stubble really, it was just shaved but my vag still feels a little sore, raw 3 days later!
I've suggested he wax (not sure if that's on the table). Are there types of lube or exfoliating or anything that can make his hair feel less sharp?
I want to go bald for him, but I'm afraid that all my sensitive areas (labia, clit) will get rubbed raw…
Has anyone solved for this? Recommendations?