Hey guys just wondering how bad married couples fights get? My husband (32M) and I (28F) have really been getting into it this past weekend – he thinks I have issues with taking accountability and I have trust issues.
He also has a swearing problem and just says whatever words come to his mind without thinking about my feelings much. He says it’s better to be blunt and doesn’t believe in sugarcoating things to protect my feelings. Is this normal? I’ve always lived a very soft life where I’ve never ever ever ever in my life been sworn at or called names. Never in past relationships or in any other situations. I’ve also never faced any sort of aggression.
Just wanting to gauge where my situation stands in comparison to others.