I (33f) am being accused of cheating or “looking around” on my husband (38) because he says he looked it up and my insecurities point to a cheater. I have never cheated in my life and would never. I am loyal and take a lot of pride in being that way. I am a very insecure person and I have figured out I have a codependency issue. I’ve been reading “Codependent No More” and am working on fixing my issues. I am obviously really hurt he thinks so little of me as to question my character on something so serious as stepping out of our marriage emotionally or physically because I would never consider doing such a thing. How do I get him to see that just because I am insecure doesn’t mean I am not a loyal person?