We’ve been married for almost 5 years and together for almost 8 years.
He works out of town m-f and comes home on the weekends.. i work every other Saturday but have been off on Saturdays this past month for family stuff. We don’t have any kids yet. It’s hard to try for babies when he’s out of town so on the weekends is when we try.
But he’s all about his football game recently on Xbox. He played it all night last night when I was asleep and wakes up around 6 and gets on the game. He’s on it right now. Part of me is okay with it because I do my own thing too. But he’s almost 40 years old. I feel like there is things to do around the house that he could be doing. (Cleaning up the yard, picking up the house, etc) part of me compares him to my dad because on Saturday mornings my dad wouldn’t be playing games all morning. He would be outside doing things and taking care of the house. If he does run errands in town when I’m not with him he finds his way to a restaurant and sits at the bar and orders food and beers. And sends beer snapchats to his friends (his friends all have kids)
I remind him or bring it up like i bet our friends are busy with their kids activities today (Saturday) while we are just sitting at home and you play your games.
It’s starting to get on my nerves and every little thing he does now is starting to get on my nerves too. Idk if he’s because I’m use to him being gone and when he comes home I’m ready for him to go back to work lol. I’m also getting annoyed we don’t try as hard for a baby when he is home. Like you would figured he would be taking advantage of being intimate with his wife when he can knowing we both want kids.
But part of me is also not happy anymore? Idk if I am. I have my days where I am and other days I start questioning a lot.
Sometimes I feel like we are just roomates