Hello! I think it's gonna be a bit long so apologies!
So we've been together for 6 years, 2 years married. I'm in my early 30's, husband is in his 40s. We met in my home country and lived there for 5 years, but my husband wanted to go back to his home country (both countries are Eu countries but we are different nationalities) so we moved to his city at the end of last year.
Since then our marriage and my life is falling apart. I don't like living here, the city is beautiful but I feel like an alien here, I don't have friends and basically sit all the time at home alone with my remote job.
My husband has no family here (he is coming from a pretty de-structured family without any normal patterns), just some friends who want to go to parties but nothing more meaningful than that. He also doesn't have any friends with "boring, regular" family lifes, many of them are single.
We are arguing a lot as my mood is bad, I miss my family and friends and generally I feel quite depressed here.
He became very selfish, all he wants is to go out and party with his friends, and when I tell him that I'm disappointed in that and if he wants to have a kid with me maybe he should learn how to be a bit more responsible instead of going out on workdays. He says I'm overreacting and he is just tired of arguing with me, he doesn't want to live a life where he cannot do whatever he wants.
I don't know what to do. I feel stuck and trapped, when we moved here he said we would just try it in this country for a while but now he says he wants to stay here and he is not open to going back to my home country.
I don't feel comfortable having a kid here with 0 family support or a reliable husband, however I love him and I'm not someone who would give up on our marriage – but unfortunately I started to think about it. So any advice would be appreciated.