Hello People,
Since I don’t have much time otherwise and no social circle in which I can meet people. I started cold approaching here and there.
I would say I look decent, I am 24 years old 5‘7 tall, and I can talk to woman decently, nothing too crazy. From I would say 12 approaches in total I got like 6 numbers. Some were not interested, and some had boyfriends. From those 6 numbers almost everyone either ghosted me or rejected me after like the first 3 messages. Yesterday for example I approached a cute girl. She made like the craziest Eye contact me the whole time. She gave me her number. I will post in the text conversation so you can tell me what went wrong:
Me: Hey hey Is that the nice girl from Austria or am I texting a 50-year-old Indian guy right now? 👀
Her: Yes 🙌🏼😊😊 Just putting my phone away and letting the evening fade away. 🌝
Next morning Me: Sounds cool, hope you had a relaxing evening:) By the way, have you ever been to the best café in Cologne?
Her: Yes 😊, which one is it?
Me: The Ain café on Venloer Street 😌 What do you think about getting a coffee there next week?
Her: Oh, I love that place, especially the Tea there 🤤 I somehow feel like I don't want to meet someone currently. Not in the mood for a date right now. ☺️But we'll definitely see each other at the gym from time to time ☺️
Me: Yeah sure:)
Then she marked my Last Message with this emoji „❤️“
The conversation was in German so I excuse some translation mistakes.
What you guys think went wrong do I ask for dates too early. I normally would not mind but I am pretty close to giving up on cold approaches because even though I get numbers it never leads to dates.
Advice appreciated.