I (f21) and my husband (m22) have been married for a year. Before we got married we were inseparable. We lived in different states but when we visited each other it was like no one else in the world mattered. When we moved in together it was like he completely flipped. He doesn’t kiss me anymore, and every time I ask for even a peck he says no. We don’t have sex much anymore and when we do I initiate because I’m in fear of what he might do if we continue to go without sex. He doesn’t talk to me anymore and just hangs out with his friends or plays video games.
I am starting to think it’s my fault. I don’t have the highest sex drive as I used to and when I say no when he initiates he gets upset with me.
He’s been spending a lot more time with one of his best friends. And it’s understandable he hasn’t seen her for months but it’s every day they are hanging out, and weird times too. Like there’s no system. Sometimes it’s early morning sometimes it’s late at night.
I want to talk about our relationship with him but every time I do he gets upset and leaves the house. Whether it’s talking about planning more dates or our sex life. He doesn’t take my concerns seriously anymore and it’s causing a rift between us.
What should I do?