Me (23) and my husband (25) got married 10 months ago. Things were going so well. He got a new car, new house, we adopted 2 cats, we were traveling… I thought we were happy. For the past week he was giving me hints how he regrets buying this house or how I should’ve stopped him from buying that car. One day he just said how sometimes he wishes he never met me. I took it as a joke even though I knew he was serious.
Few days later I asked him why he thinks that and he said he thinks that we are different and he didn’t know life with me will be this boring.
I don’t know why he thinks that because he is still treating me good. He knows when I’m upset, he literally knows me better than me. And for the past month I feel like I can’t speak with him, it’s like he’s avoiding me. Now he plays games most of the time or watches TV. If I try saying anything he yells at me.
I’m really stressed out about this and I don’t know what to do.