As title says – I’ve been dating people recently I like to chat to and I think on paper we’re a good match but chemistry wise it just isn’t there. One in particular I’ve been on 4 dates with and I like the convo and I feel we get along so well and he has a lot of traits I admire but sexually I just don’t feel much.. when we kiss it sorts of just feels mechanical and like there is no spark.
But I’m also wary of calling it off because I feel like I’m def a culprit of ‘boring = wrong for me = end up dating people who make me insane with their inconsistencies and call it chemistry’
How do you know when to keep letting it unfold versus when to call it? I feel a bit guilty leading people on when I have doubts but also at the same time not giving a relationship time to grow