I just graduated higher with my girlfriend of 4 months recently her past has caught up too her I’ve asked about it and she told me she had 4 partners me included I said ok fine and she’s kissed 7 people, nothing of it I opened up to her about childhood trauma and stuff a therapist should hear about my fathers passing and she told me some stuff too and this guy came up I found out she “forgot she kissed” I said whatever and told her if there’s anything else tell me now rather than me finding out later and I gave her a calm and perfect opportunity we were both emotional open and I believe we hade a amazing relationship before this.
Return Come to find out she told me today 3 days after our convo she has slept with one more guy than she told me and kissed 3 more. And she “forgot about” I understand in the grand scheme of things this isnt really anything but keep in mind we just graduated and these guys where in the last 3 years and there weren’t many of them, if we were older and long term or married it would be different so I don’t understand how she ”forgot”. She lied to my face after asking her multiple times and it took me kept asking for her to tell me about another and then another and I feel like there’s more she’s just not telling me about. She admitted she lied about the guy she slept with but should I break up with her, I love her so much but I can’t trust her after she lied to my face again and again. TLDR “she keeps being up new guys after she swears there was nobody else she kissed or did it with”
Edit: she asked me first and I know the whole kissed this isn’t relevant but she asked me everything first and one of the guys she kissed I’m fairly close with. She asked me who I had been with and when I asked back she lied so that’s what has me upset