Me (F,33) met this guy (M,25) year and a half ago on tinder we get along very well,went on romantic dates,had our first kiss on a third date,had many nice dates and romantic moments,he told me he was looking for a relationship and never pushed me to intimacy,but we had a great chemistry.After many dates and almost a month of dating we got physical,it felt great, but it was begging of the end.After our first time I started to notice that he wanted to see me only for physical contact,it was constantly,but always at his or my place,we rarely went out which upsets me a lot.So long story short he promised me a lot,but never did,he even didn’t introduce me to his friends,basically i realised he just wanted to fck and nothing else,after 4 months of this “dating” we decided to broke up (I was the one who brought up the topic),but after 2 months apart and boring dates I realised I missed him and I hit him up,we had a passionate night and after that started to see each other again.We’ve seen each other mostly for intimacy,but then started to go out,I wanted to be official,meet his friends and all the relationship stuff.He told me he will commit in the future (was soo dumb to believe,I know).I was feeling unloved and unseen all the time,but stayed with him.So this June after year of our dating he broke up with me,telling me there is no romantic connection and he even want me to date someone else as he is unable to give me what I want!I’ve asked him did he meet someone else and he said no.Yesterday I saw stories of him with his new gf around his friends,all are couples,and I felt so stupid and used!It was obvious that he didn’t want me as his gf but wanted me for my body,energy and love I gave him .So guys if you feel that smth is off,don’t think,but break up with them immediately!I wasted a year of my life for nothing and now I’m feeling awful.


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