Hi everyone,
I just want to see if there is a reason why I am still hitting a brick wall with my husband on this issue.
Currently, I work, and he is home. We have two kids, but my mother watches the oldest until 5:00 PM every day, and she watches the youngest three days out of the week.
So, in this instance, I have asked my husband to take more of the lead on household items (cleaning and laundry) Monday, Wednesday, and Friday when he doesn't have the kids, and we share when we have to do things with the kids when I am home.
He stated he wanted me to do more on the weekends to help, and I said sure, but that means that he also needs to be doing things Monday, Wednesday, and Friday because on those days he just plays video games and watches TV and maybe rearrange something and wipe things down. I just believe that if I am working basically every day that we both should be working every day.
Am I being too harsh and do I not understand the SAHP struggle?