I don’t really have an issue talking to new people and have even been called charming a good amount of times. However, once I’m acquainted with someone I don’t really know how to go beyond that stage. This led me to being in good terms with a lot of people but never being invited to do things with them. I’ve tried to initiate plans myself a lot of times but people will usually just say they’re busy or we might hang out a few times but I always end up being the one to reach out to them rather than the other way around which gets pretty tiring.