Hii, well, first ive been searching through the forum is someone asked the exact same thing but no because its a little more personal, so let's start. My bf and i have been together for some months now, and we both were virgins before doing it with each other. The thing is, I can't make him finish through hand jobs or blowjobs, I've tried it all, and i can be thirty minutes doing it and i keep loosing the rhythm or whatever and he doesn't cum. Then, our sex is amazing because we have a very great chemistry, but from all the times we've done it, in two i couldn't make him cum. The first was a while ago and I don't remember exactly what was the reason or explanation we gave it to it, but few days ago we stopped doing it after almost an hour because he couldn't finish. And honestly, im getting crazy because the least thing I want to think is he cant cum with me because I'm not attractive enough for him (even thought he said i am), but I keep comparing myself with his ex, who only did a hand job to him and he came quickly.
I don't consider my "technique" bad, and he says im good at doing those things, but we're worried and i want to help him too. (Also, these past weeks have been busy and making him tired to him, so it may be the reason why his body didn't want to finish, but it's the fact that without sex I cant make him cum) :((