My (22F) boyfriend (26M) of one and a half years has always been quite quirky during sex (initiating laughs, saying something unhinged, etc) and initially I thought that he does this in an effort to be honest and in order to get to know me, but it's been so long now, and considering how well versed we ate with each other's bodies, they seem off putting now. Plus, it's not just his questions, it's some things he just does and has no explanation when asked.
Listing a few examples below:
1. Asks for feedback IMMEDIATELY after we're done. I understand the feedback seeking, but doing it immediately after is tedious. Is this normal? Should I be irked by it or should I get used to it?
2. Said "I love you" during sex (normally I am not one to say it back in general, and usually refrain from saying all this during sex) and I didn't say it back, but I didn't get conscious of it and didn't make him feel awkward about it either. However, later that day, during another round, I said "I love you" and he immediately just stopped everything. He has no explanation for it. I'm confused by it and very adamant on teetering from my usual behaviour EVER now.
3. An extension of point 1 above, he made ChatGPT come up with a sexual performance feedback form and made me fill it right after sex.
4. Keeps saying things along the lines of "If I were you and this was the performance I got during sex, I'd so cheat" and "People should have sex with each other when considering an arranged marriage with each other to prevent performances and disappointments like this" and "At this point, you should be able to get sexual satisfactiom even if it's from someone else" For the record, I have never said anything about "not lasting long" or "not being long enough" but he keeps trying to put words in my mouth like this when I completely disagree. How do I handle this? And is such behaviour normal?