I don’t even know if this is the right sub to ask for help, but I have a problem.
I just moved into a new college apartment set up with someone I don’t know. I just transferred from community college and I don’t know anyone here, but that’s beside the point.
My issue is my roommate is letting random men into our apartment without any notice. A half hour after her parents dropped her off, she had a guy in her room doing the nasty. She also hasn’t provided a single thing she agreed to for the communal space, and refuses to talk to me. Right now there’s some random guy in the kitchen who I don’t know and I don’t even think she’s here.
Look, I’m older than her and I know I should be able to do confrontation, but truth be told I have terrible anxiety. Another this is I have bad past with men, and this kind of stuff is making me uncomfortable because I feel like I can’t even live in the space I’m paying for.
Please, I need advice.