Firstly, I’m autistic, but low enough on the spectrum to “pass” as a neurotypical. That makes things tricky at times
Secondly, I want the quiet peaceful life. I’m about to launch into a stable career and I also want a stable relationship to go with it.
On the apps, so many people make drinking their personality. I swipe left because I want someone who can intellectually stimulate me, and most profiles are the same. Drinking, take me on a holiday, you can’t handle my sarcasm prompts.
I just rejected a girl who was stunning, I was so interested, but on our first date she was chaotic, admitted to having breakdowns, and trauma dumped about abusive exes, the time she abused an ex, asked me if I would marry her in a year, and at the end of it she tried to get me to arrange a meet up again, but I just want peaceful stability
I just want a girl I can go on peaceful picnics with down by a pretty lake, and look forward and to building a stable family with one day