Idk if this is the right community but I need some help insight.
Husband had this conversation with his long time female friend, I believe inappropriately. You can read my other post about it.
It's been 2 years since that happened and I haven't gotten over it since. I'm the type of person that once you betray me, I'll NEVER forget or forgive you.
He did attempt to try to make things work out I believe, like he stopped contact and even deleted his Facebook account. He created a new one just for "Facebook marketplace"… Until I seen he sent her a friend request, which she accepted, and he's been checking out her profile, posts, and pictures.
I'll NEVER get over him saying he has deep strong emotional feelings for her, and she's the only one he can talk to about anything and everything and only one on his level and he's just really connected to her.
Even if this doesn't seem too harmful for you guys, it hurts me and I want to move on without him.
I've talked to him about a divorce and he says I'm just the problem, he has done nothing wrong, he's not going and not agreeing for a divorce. He won't let me have my belongings and he won't go either.
I'm at a loss and idk what to do….
I don't have anywhere to go, no family or close friends, and I dont have money to "lawyer up" either. Just FYI….