I matched with two girls around the same time about 2 weeks ago.
First girl, we’ll call Brandy, is very outgoing, super sweet, and I’m attracted to physically. We’ve been on two dates and hit it off. Kissed the first date, 3rd base on the second date. I see her as a potential long term partner and she feels the same (probably more so than I do).
Second girl, we’ll call Miranda, is not as outgoing, was texting or using her phone a lot during the first date. We got along fine, but the conversation wasn’t as good as it was with Brandy. I’m slightly more physically attracted to Miranda, and we ended the first date with a make out session.
Miranda and I planned a second date for tonight for her to come to my place for takeout, wine, and watch a movie. I have a feeling we’ll get physically intimate again.
My main question is how to navigate things with Miranda, since I’m more interested in Brandy, but it’s too early to lock in anything with either. I kind of feel bad getting physical with Miranda tonight since we’re both looking for longterm, I think she likes me more than I like her, and I don’t know if I see myself long term with her.
Any advice appreciated 🙏🏻