title isn’t even exclusive to this guy, just in general. i’ve never been on a date this bad, and the guy not take the hint.
i (22f) went out with Mike (22m) for the first time about a month ago. we went to listen to some live music and it was great because we both love music. we did kiss before the end of the night, but that was all. i was busy on vacation and whatnot after that so we weren’t able to meet again until last week. we went out to eat and agreed we could watch a movie at my place afterward, and i had no intentions of having sex with him
before going to my place, i asked we stop at a video game store so we could browse and, because this is another common interest of ours, he agreed. we were stuck at a busy intersection for maybe max 6 minutes and he got the worst road rage at a stop light.. he was raising his voice, yelling, slammed on his horn and honked repeatedly while the person in front of us was unable to do anything. he sharply turned into the store we were going to, hit the curb in the parking lot, and he started like.. beating his steering wheel with his hands and head 😅😅 he said it was a reference to an old viner but i was already out of the car at that point. i don’t know why i didn’t cut it off here.. anyhow, while looking around in this very small and crowded store, he was very touchy with me like grabbing my hand and standing practically right on top of me and staring at me to be silly. he kissed my head a few times and i don’t know.. please correct me if i’m wrong but it just felt a bit much for me- those are slight gestures i’d be ok with in a committed relationship but for a 2nd date, literally 2 kisses prior with this person. i dunno. i kept pulling away from him but i understand i should have voiced that i wanted him to stop
we came back to my place, turned on a movie, and we weren’t cuddling but we were close. we kissed a few times, but i wouldn’t say making out. there was a point where he kissed my neck, but i pulled away and told him to stop. he asked why, and i just stared at him. he asked why again, and if i just didn’t like neck kisses. i agreed with that because i was uncomfortable. i found an out with a phone call to send him home, and he later texted me apologizing for if he was at all weird but didn’t specify
i’ve been distant since then, but i don’t know how to just tell him directly that i don’t think we should see each other. i don’t know if it’s deep enough to even tell him directly, i don’t know. i’ve not been on many dates and i’ve had a bad experience with people in the past, so i’m a bit paranoid about his possible reaction given the road rage and him asking why i don’t like something he does after rejecting him. am i overreacting or overthinking any of this?