Went to dinner with friends, where the restaurant ran out of a dish we wanted. Friends suggested we go somewhere else. Feeling uncomfortable with the suggestion of leaving, I said "How are we supposed to just leave though?" To which my friend 1 said "By getting up and walking out on our 2 legs." To which I replied "Well obviously.." and then friend 2 said "Well they didn't serve us water yet so I think it's ok." Friend 2 replied to my query clearly of how could we just get up and go after sitting, it made me feel uncomfortable. It was a small joint and not a lot of customers.
Later that night we were planning a trip, and Friend 2 suggested we go to a particular city, but said she knew we weren't interested. I replied and said I was very interested but Friend 1 didn't want to go. Friend 1 immediately got defensive and was like "I didnt say that I never said that" and I said I couldve sworn it was her. She then snapped at me and said "don't bring up old stuff". I don't think I replied, or I may have jokingly said I'l have to pull up the reciepts. And then Friend 1, seemingly calmed down said "Maybe because I went to that city recently I might have said that."
Anyways Friend 1 is seeming like an asshole to me, but I don't know how to address it. She didn't snap at Friend 2 the whole night.