Meeting new people isn't that hard, you meet a person, you start conversation, share some basic stuff about yourself, if it's the person you met online then you already know where to text them, if it's the person you met irl you ask for their socials, you then text them over something a couple more times – and here's your new friend, BUT…..
Out of all the people I met only 1-2 turned into my real friends eventually, all the others are just…. there…. I can text them and they'll respond, and it doesn't look like I force them to speak, talking feels natural and easy, BUT they'll never text me first, never offer me to do something or share something personal, they are just some people I know and that's it, they're not my REAL friends….
And I honestly have no idea how to make real friends then, what am I supposed to do if the person just doesn't want to invest in this friendship as much as I do?
I do realize that maybe they weren't supposed to be my real friends anyway, maybe they weren't in need of a new friend, and I was – and I mean, that's okay, but the statistics are just depressing – out of all the friends I made only 1-2 turned out to be my real friends eventually, the ones who truly care, and this is such small percentage honestly…..
How do you make friendship real? Or is this in fact okay that there's so little real friends in your life?