So in the beginning of our relationship, she used to swallow my orgasms but now after 5+ years she has transitioned to spitting it out. I understand this is a somewhat common phenomenon for the “honeymoon” phase as women will do this early on to impress the man. However, when I asked her about it she said it’s just the taste and texture that makes her gag.
The thing is – all of my exes swallowed my orgasms every single time and it truly is a different and better sensation. I know it’s obviously not enough to throw away a 5+ year relationship over, but I’m more curious if there are other people out there in a similar situation?
I’ve read other threads about it and the thing that gets me is when other guys describe the act of swallowing as a woman fully accepting her man, and god I really miss that sensation. How do you cope with knowing that swallowing just feels better even though your SO doesn’t want to swallow you?