Met a girl a few months ago. First date was 4 hours. Convo flowed. It was nice to meet organically. We both didn’t expect too much but I have fallen for her hard. I think she has with me too but is more afraid to say I love you.

We’ve been getting into a few fights recently. It’s either about my age(I’m about 10 years older), or tension how we aren’t official. I haven’t asked and have been afraid to.

My whole reason for ever being upset with her is due to her saying she doesn’t want me to meet her friends and maybe even family. She’s made comments about how I’ll never meet them yet she wishes I could go to a game or two of hers(she plays co ed sports) but can’t due to friends, parents whatever. This makes me feel hurt and like I’m being hidden.

If someone is reportedly crazy about you and obsessed(her words), wouldn’t you want to introduce that person to people around you? I’ve fallen hard for her and she’s said she doesn’t necessarily want a relationship yet we see one another 85% of days. I sleep over often.


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