Hello everyone, hope everything is going well for you !
Recently, I received lot of comments about how I get very close to people too fast and that people might be scared of me because of that
I come from a background of socialy anxious teen boy, who grew to become at ease socialy with… well anyone.
The thing is that some people might feel uncomfortable about high energies and unfiltered persone (think authentic, no second thought, extremely curious about others), and I just discovered that from some people wich took their courage to speak to me about that
I am gratful that they opened up, it gives me some areas to improve since this is not an isolated opinion.
The thing is, how am I supposed to bond with people if randomly proposing to hang out, opening up the conversation at anytime, being sincerly interested into others is perceived as "too much" ?
Should I take more time to let people feel confident around me ? Should I calm down about my openness ? I don't really know what to do about that
If something is unclear or you want more precision, feel free to ask for it 🙂