When we talked for the first time, I told him that I kinda envied that one of my roommates has a happy family. By envy, I meant I craved for a happy family like hers. But somehow he told me that jealousy is not good and I was confused and kinda pissed so I explained it to him that that's not what I meant. He then changed the topic.
A few months later, he told me that a pretty girl with sexy clothes asked him to hang out with her and she also tried to flirt with him（He had a gf that time so he told me that he didn't flirt back with her and that he only accepted her invite. He also told me he guessed she might be seducing him in hindsight）. In the end, his guess proved to be right coz that girl was indeed trying to drag him into a triangular relationship（she had a bf）.
After hearing all that he said, I ONLY told him that he should have rejected her from the get go. Then he got defensive all of a sudden and said I was jealous of his popularity. And I was like wtf？He somehow tried to teach me that some girls are flirty like that and gave me an example that Latinas are flirty with men. And then he kept doubling down by asking me if he should delete all ppl that like him but I didn't even say anything like that. I didn't understand where all this was coming from. I was so pissed and quoted his seduction guess and told him I didn't say anything like that so stop twisting my words. He then found me unbelievable and said this was just a misunderstanding and tried to tell me the differences between misunderstanding and word-twisting. I then sent him the Google definition of "word-twisiting" and then he finally admitted it and stayed silent.
After all this drama, I feel really angry and disappointed so I cut him off for a few months and then sent him AI analyses of his problems later（coz I'm not good at expressing why I still feel angry with what he said）. After he read what I sent, he finally apologized and told me communication is key and then I should have told him more clearly. But I did tell him to stop twisting my words before. Is it still not obvious enough for him？He didn't apologize until I sent him analyses. After his apology, he said it was not personal against me and then he said those things to me maybe coz of his life experiences and circumstances at that time. I get that but still I'm keeping my distance from him coz I still feel uncomfortable and this is not the first time he put words into my mouth out of nowhere.
What would u guys do if y'all were in this situation？Would u still give him another chance？How can I improve my communication skills and explain myself more clearly if I'm in a similar situation again？