No guy has been interested in me romantically. I’m 15f. Please don’t just say I should focus on myself or something like that. There is only one person I could believe slightly was interested in me for a hot second, but I don’t even know if I’m making that up or not. All of my friends are having talking stages, getting compliments by guys, getting asked for their snaps, etc. I know I don’t have to be in a relationship or anything, but it’s hard being the only one of my friends that doesn’t even have the option. Every time I’ve brought this up to one of my friends they always say I’ll find someone or I just need to talk to more people. But people will approach them and ask for their number when we are sitting together just talking with each other. They also get compliments like, all the time. I don’t really ever get any. I’m not jealous or upset that they get them, they are absolutely beautiful and deserve them. I just didn’t think I was that bad off to not get any. I honestly feel like I’m missing out. I haven’t had my first kiss, I haven’t ever talked to a guy that’s interested in me, I haven’t ever been complimented by a guy. I am pretty confident, and I don’t like, hide from guys or anything. Even in school (where I’d most likely meet someone) nobody even seems to notice me. It sucks. It feels like I’m never going to find someone who loves me romantically. That’s kinda dramatic but it’s how it feels. Like homecoming is soon, and I keep hearing about people with their dates. I just want young love. I don’t want to miss out. I don’t understand. I think I’m pretty funny. I’m pretty average looking, but not like, really unattractive or anything. I’m athletic. I do well in school. I try to always be nice. I’m social. I don’t know what’s wrong with me that makes me invisible. Again, I know I don’t need to be in a relationship. And I don’t even know if I want one right now. I just want to understand why I don’t even have the option if I wanted one. Please don’t give me any bullshit. I just want an honest answer. Literally any insight would be very helpful. Thank you.


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