Hey guys,
So I had my first time recently and ran into a problem. I was hard when she went down on me, everything was fine… but the moment I put the condom on, I went soft. Tried again, same issue. It was really frustrating because mentally I was turned on, but my body didn’t cooperate.
Has anyone else experienced this? How do you deal with it? Is it just performance anxiety ,condom issue, or something deeper?
Also, I’ve been reading about Kegels and reverse Kegels ,apparently they help in maintaining erection quality and delaying ejaculation. If anyone here has practical tips or a routine for using Kegels during sex, I’d really appreciate it.
Thanks in advance 🙏