My boyfriend (22m) and I (22f) have been dating for around 5 months now. Within this period of time, we’ve tried out several different ways to have sex: mouth, hand, and penetration. Almost every time without doubt is painful to me in some way, and the pain is usually a burning/stinging sensation.
It doesn’t matter how aroused I am, how long we spend on foreplay, or how much lube we use, it just hurts? Before him, I also struggled with pain/sensitivity whenever I’d try masturbating, especially if it involved penetration. Penetration just feels impossible, it’s like my muscles just won’t stretch? With him though, it hurts sometimes even when he’s not penetrating me. We just had sex the other day and it didn’t hurt when he used his hands (non-penetrative), but it did hurt when he gave me oral?
I was just wondering, what’s wrong with me? Is there anything I can do to make it less painful and more pleasurable? Is this normal or should I be concerned? I really love him and want to be able to have a fulfilling sex life with him but this is really getting in the way. 🙁