I (M21) have heard my gf (F21) mention once or twice the intention of trying a vibrator some day and, although im not really against it, it makes me insecure about a couple things.
What if she ends up liking it more than our actual sex or what if she likes it so much she won't even feel like getting into it with me because of how much she uses it?
I've seen a lot of people say how it will improve sex life because i will be able to please her better, but the way i see it, i'm just having a toy do the work for me, it's like she's not even enjoying what i'm doing but rather something else. Won't that just make her associate these feelings with the vibrator instead of me, leading to her losing any kind of lust for me whatsoever?
These probably sound a bit too stupid to ask but they're genuine concerns, so i wanna know about people's experiences of adding vibrators to their sex lives. Did you also have these concerns and how did it play out?
EDIT: just to provide context, my gf does take pleasure in our regular sex and orgasms multiple times (im 100% there's no faking). It's not like she wants a vibrator for sex to feel good but rather to try it out