I saw a small comment thread that made me wonder;
When it comes to gettin' freaky in the middle of the night, it seems women often say just let them sleep and that sex in the morning is better, whereas men seem to say they'd love it if their partner woke them up for/with sex.
How do you guys feel about it?
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It happens all the time in the morning. I’m fine with it unless I’m really tired. Then I just stay sleeping until she gives up.
Great!!! However, as a practical matter, just not happening at this time in my life.
I think it depends on who is normally the one who initiates the sex. I imagine any guy who does 99% of the initiating would love sex he didn’t initiate in the middle of the night or literally any other time.
Ya, last night was great. So was this morning. Love my wife!
I’m all for it. My wife has only done it like twice ever though.
I care less about sleep than most. Absolutely wake me up.
Yes please
I like the idea of it in theory. In practice, it had better not happen on a night before I have to work.
it honestly depends on what my day was like,
Cutting Grass and Drinking Whiskey
Sure lets fuck
10 hours of Hard Labor in 100F?
Ehhh let me sleep please.
From one dream to another
I remember my wife coming home from a business trip. She arrived about 1 am & woke me by jumping my bones. Yes, we were a tad younger then
It depends on how tired I am.
my gf used to do this all the time! like every time I stayed over ! there is not much compared to waking up to receiving oral and your balls being massaged!
This is 100% going to vary for everyone. I’d love to wake up fuck, in fact waking up with my cock in her mouth is one of my favorite things ever, but many people will NOT appreciate having their sleep interrupted for sex.
I would assume I was still dreaming.
Depends on if I have work in the morning or not and caffeine on standby.
I’ve woken up more than once to her grinding on top of my morning wood.
To which I say; “Dang. Alright. Enjoy it honey. I’m going back to sleep.”
That’s probably the best way to stop me from snoring.
When I was younger, I feel like this would have been something I would have been very enthusiastic about, but now I value sleep way more than sex.
I just don’t think it’s like particularly as fun as other times and it’s just not really necessary like why can’t we do this at a time? We’re both awake
I’ve told all the women I’ve been with that they don’t even have to wake me up, just get me hard and climb on.
It’s a better than waking up to a cup of coffee that’s for sure
When i used to work night shift, my gf used to crawl under the covers and wake me up with a BJ and turn it into sex. And then promptly leave so I could go back to sleep. My sleep suffered but it was pretty awesome.
Hell nah. I need my sleep and value it a lot.
If I am suddenly woken up I am feeling highly dehydrated, slightly nauseous etc…..
Plus it takes time for me to fall asleep. So it’s a big no for me.
But other guys will say something different so ask your partner.
Waking up to sex = fuck yes
Woken up for sex = woman I’m trying to sleep
If I have work the next day, no. Sleep is more important to me at this point.
Weekends off? Sure.
In the middle of my rotation of 12 hour shifts? No.
I don’t care. If you want it, come and get it.
Man here. Doesn’t happen often enough but when it does… I LOVE IT.
She has given me the green light to wake her up for sex but I am a smart man that has been married for 21 years and I KNOW that there is fine print. I have successfully cashed in on her offer a handful of times but have resisted the urge many more times than I have attempted to pull it off.
When men say they’d love to be woken up with sex, I assume they mean 7am not 4am
No thanks. I sleep my bare minimum, so that gets me even less sleep, and I drag myself all day long. Also, if I get woken up in the middle of the night, my head aches, so I’m in a bad mood.
Do.not.wake.me.up.to.fuck
If she can wake me up for a spooky sound in the home, she can wake me up for sex.