Okay so I have no one in my life that I can talk to about this; I touch myself once a day almost. Sometimes more than once a day, sometimes I skip a day or two. It’s often though, more often than not. I’m sitting here really wanting to but I fear I am doing it too much. Often times I find it hard to sleep without doing so. I don’t watch porn, it’s never interested me really, I just think of my boyfriend. Is this overly sexualizing him? I feel guilty, is it harmful mentally or physically for me to be getting off this often?

TLDR; is it bad to touch myself every day to thoughts of my boyfriend, is this over sexualizing him, is it bad for my health to be getting off that often?


6 comments

  1. That is 100% OK. Your body, your pleasure, your private thoughts. Enjoy them all, they belong to you and no one else.

  2. I’m 58-1/2.
    I make sure I take my girl to the gym daily, so to speak!
    If she doesn’t get a solo workout, how will she be able to be happy and satisfied when she gets to play with someone else?
    Besides, it gives you time to focus on what you like, what you DON’T like, and try new things before whipping an idea out on a partner. (Sometimes, concepts and fantasies can be physically complicated. It’s good to do a dry run before inviting other folks along)
    You do you, Boo!
    🤗

  3. You don’t say how old you are, but you are 100% just fine!!! I wondered about the age, because I (67 F) thing that many of us women went through this when we were young, and somehow managed to figure out was OK, or else we just stopped worrying about it!!!

    Don’t feel bad at all. You need to be very comfortable with your own body, and you need to take care of your body!!! I like to play with myself every couple of days, sometimes every day. When I am stressed out, that distracts me and I don’t do it as often, but really, that’s when it would probably do the most good.

    I think may of us women could really benefit by learning how to let go of all that stress and just relax and concentrate on pleasure for a change!!!!!

  4. You are perfectly normal and have no harm in touching yourself if you like it

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