So my SO lives with her parents and I’ll come over to hang out a few times a week. Occasionally, things will get heated (usually when we have the place to ourselves, sometimes not but in that case we’ll be in another room with the door closed) and we’ll have fun together. The thing is – whenever I orgasm after my SO gives me head, she likes to spits my load into this fancy wine glass. It’s for no reason other than the fact that she thinks it’s a pretty glass so it’s slightly more romantic than a red solo cup or something. I don’t necessarily have a preference but she always goes for this specific wine glass.
After I’m relieved, she’ll eventually go rinse the glass and place it in the dishwasher.
My question is – is this 100% sanitary? Is all of my cum actually being cleaned off in the dishwasher? I know it should be, but the fact that the same wine glass then gets put back on the shelf like nothing happened, and even casually reused…makes me feel some type of way.
I brought it up to her once saying “Are you sure the dishwasher cleans it thoroughly?” and she just said “Of course”. So almost every time I orgasm, my cum ends up in that wine glass.
Is this normal? Am I overthinking it? What does everyone think the proper etiquette is in this situation?