I feel like I suffer too much from thinking really well thought out arguments or comments in my head but when I try to say it out loud it becomes gibberish or I sound stupid when I speak.
The example I think of is in college when there would be group discussions. I would think of a really well though out response to what someone said in my head but I just couldn’t get myself to raise my hand and say it, or if I did speak I didn’t sound well spoken I just sounded like I was throwing together words.
It kinda feels like there’s a disconnect between my mind and my mouth and I sound so much smarter in my head than when I start speaking. I want to fix this especially as I go to corporate job interviews and more professional spaces where I have to sound more put together but I’m not sure how…