my bf and i have had sex 3 times now (we were both virgins to start). it obviously hurts going in and the pain subsides a bit during the act, but it doesn’t really become.. pleasurable? then it burns to pee and im just sore and sad afterwards. is it because i just haven’t done it enough? or maybe i just don’t like sex? its definitely not my bf because i love him more than anything and he definitely makes me horny so i’m not sure what to do.