I know people are probably sick of the "should I ask her" posts, so im sorry, but im struggling here. For context im M,, we're both in our early-mid 20s
Alright , so ive been working with a girl off and on for around 2-3 years now, for the last id say year and a half we've been pretty good friends, just often talking to each other at work, sharing stuff we find funny with each other outside of work, just like memes and stuff, and some conversations over text and stuff of course, though never anything too deep, mostly just about something the other was doing or was interested in, shes even shared songs and stuff with me that she likes and thought I might, all this to say we talk lots at work and have contact outside of work, though not always super often or super personal stuff.
I've liked her for awhile now , but first of all im very nervous to ask her out, and I honestly haven't ever done it before and I also was hesitant because I didnt want to make things weird at work. However she is going to be done working with me very soon, and its got me thinking I should finally give it a go since the work risk is gone, but im still super nervous and I just don't know if its worth losing a friend or making things weird with her.
Theres been times where I thought she may like me as well, but like I said, I haven't had a relationship and im not so sure im great at reading signals, but like we talk pretty often, I can always make her laugh, there were a few times where i'd be walking to her or whatever and we'd just kinda lock eyes for a few seconds and shed laugh or smile a bit. But she hasn't really given me any super obvious comments I dont think, other than saying im strong a few times and maybe a couple other small things, I dont think there's been like any compliments or whatever, but the thing is we're both a little socially anxious, we've talked a bit about that , so I just keep thinking what if we're both just sitting here scared to make a move on the other one.
Im sorry for the wall of text, but any input is very much appreciated, and im happy to provide more details if that helps anything!
Edit: we haven't done anything just 1 on 1 outside of work, but she did recently invite a small group grom wirk to hangout , which i went to and had a great time, not saying that's a sign or anything, but she does enjoy seeing me outside of work to some degree.