Ladies, What Is The Best Way To Tell A Potential or Future Partner About Any Unusual Hobbies or Interests You Have?
August 27, 2025
Ladies, What Is The Best Way To Tell A Potential or Future Partner About Any Unusual Hobbies or Interests You Have?
12 comments
What “unusual” are we talking about?
Just be upfront. Share your hobbies naturally in conversation. If they’re worth your time, they’ll accept it.
As be upfront and casual about it. They’re your hobbies and interests and that makes you, you. Maybe they’ll share with you theirs too because you share about yours. The person I’ve been seeing for 3 months told me he loves to dance, to sew, repair broken things, and go to flea markets because he likes vintage things. I think that makes him different and self-assured compared to a lot of men that I’ve met. Because he said that, I’m able to share with him that I love collecting colourful water bottles, food and nature photography and I love taking photographs of brutalist buildings and reading about them. I love reading the dictionary too.
So what I’m trying to say is, we all like what we like and as long as we don’t hurt anyone, and if they like us enough, it’s going to be alright. If they think you’re weird for them, they’re not for you. 🙂
My hobbies r pretty tame . The issue usually comes about with my spiritual beliefs & practices.
I dont hide and if they can’t accept it than they aren’t worth my time..
In your dating profile. That way you’re not going to waste your own or anyone else’s time and you’re going to attract people who either think it’s interesting, doesn’t care or enjoys the same hobby.
If you’re magically meeting in real life then talking about your deal-breakers during the first date is a good time to mention them and ask if that’s fine. It doesn’t have to be unusual hobbies either, if it takes a lot of time and/or money it’s also good to mention as early as possible. Going to the gym isn’t a rare hobby but if you spend 4h/day in there and never ever eat anything but meal preps that’s important to mention because that’s a deal-breaker to a lot of people while others are going to be “excellent! Let’s go together and have meal prep dates!”
When i was dating my husband i mentioned them as soon as he asked what my hobbies and interests are. I would also immediately ell him about any new ones i discovered
“Weird question, but what do you think about furry orgies? Cause I’m super into them.”
Skip the usual brunch, lunch or dinner date at least for one outing and instead choose an activity that relates to your unusual hobby. If he is serious about getting to know you, it would be nice for him to see you in your element.
Hobbies are something I assume you do with pretty decent frequency, so just tell her about it.
If she really hates it , it’s better to know sooner than later no?
Why deny yourself from doing what you like just for a woman.
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Just openly tell them. If they find your hobby a turn off, then they aren’t the person for you. It’s obviously something you enjoy, so just own that and be ok that some people might not be interested.
Well, when I was dating I would go through these things in the first 1-3 dates. Actually talking about hobbies and interests is easy and a perfect first initiative for an first date.
12 comments
What “unusual” are we talking about?
Just be upfront. Share your hobbies naturally in conversation. If they’re worth your time, they’ll accept it.
As be upfront and casual about it. They’re your hobbies and interests and that makes you, you. Maybe they’ll share with you theirs too because you share about yours. The person I’ve been seeing for 3 months told me he loves to dance, to sew, repair broken things, and go to flea markets because he likes vintage things. I think that makes him different and self-assured compared to a lot of men that I’ve met. Because he said that, I’m able to share with him that I love collecting colourful water bottles, food and nature photography and I love taking photographs of brutalist buildings and reading about them. I love reading the dictionary too.
So what I’m trying to say is, we all like what we like and as long as we don’t hurt anyone, and if they like us enough, it’s going to be alright. If they think you’re weird for them, they’re not for you. 🙂
My hobbies r pretty tame . The issue usually comes about with my spiritual beliefs & practices.
I dont hide and if they can’t accept it than they aren’t worth my time..
In your dating profile. That way you’re not going to waste your own or anyone else’s time and you’re going to attract people who either think it’s interesting, doesn’t care or enjoys the same hobby.
If you’re magically meeting in real life then talking about your deal-breakers during the first date is a good time to mention them and ask if that’s fine. It doesn’t have to be unusual hobbies either, if it takes a lot of time and/or money it’s also good to mention as early as possible. Going to the gym isn’t a rare hobby but if you spend 4h/day in there and never ever eat anything but meal preps that’s important to mention because that’s a deal-breaker to a lot of people while others are going to be “excellent! Let’s go together and have meal prep dates!”
When i was dating my husband i mentioned them as soon as he asked what my hobbies and interests are. I would also immediately ell him about any new ones i discovered
“Weird question, but what do you think about furry orgies? Cause I’m super into them.”
Skip the usual brunch, lunch or dinner date at least for one outing and instead choose an activity that relates to your unusual hobby. If he is serious about getting to know you, it would be nice for him to see you in your element.
Hobbies are something I assume you do with pretty decent frequency, so just tell her about it.
If she really hates it , it’s better to know sooner than later no?
Why deny yourself from doing what you like just for a woman.
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Just openly tell them. If they find your hobby a turn off, then they aren’t the person for you. It’s obviously something you enjoy, so just own that and be ok that some people might not be interested.
Well, when I was dating I would go through these things in the first 1-3 dates. Actually talking about hobbies and interests is easy and a perfect first initiative for an first date.