I (32f) have had more than one partner but when I'm with my now bf (37m) he says I'm so tight he goes numb down there. And I try to relax but I can't? And I've not had this issue in the past. But he lasts so long that I get irritated and swollen down there and it adds worse to wear making everything tighter. I have a lot of arousal fluid and he has a lot of pre-cum so I don't see how lube would help the issue. Anyone have the same issue and any recommendations that worked for them?
Lol not an erection but erectile tissue is causing the issue lol idk