25 now and I’ve been struggling after college to meet new girls. In college I had a good group of friends with Greek life and other people but all of my friends scurried across the country to different parts and not a single one of my college friends lives in my current city. I’ve been meeting a few new people but my job in sales kinda socially exhausts me so I don’t have as much energy and I’m not the biggest fan of rolling up to a bar by myself (I tried it a few times and just ended up missing friends.) my job is essentially a call center so it’s hard to really get to know my coworkers as we can’t take our headsets off. Any advice? I’m not super religious anymore so I’m not church fairing. I see girls around my age the gym but I really don’t want to be that guy that goes up to interrupt them.
I was back home in a small town for about two years after college and there was only a handful of girls there my age but they were all married. (Small southern town for you). Since I moved to a medium size city i have met just one girl who was around my age and single and she came up to me first to talk to me after I complimented her haircut. We went to eat after the bar but it didn’t go anywhere after that. My satellite office is small with only six of us and the others aren’t that interested in going out. (They mostly have girlfriends and that’s likely why but I’ve only been out with one one time and his gf made him come back home lmao)