Hi, I am a 19 year old plus size female I lost my virginity right before I turned 18 and it was incredibly painful even for days after to the point I went to the hospital found out my Cervic has prolapsed (fallen down) due to my muscle being messed up. I have finally had sex again right before my 19 birthday as my muscle have healed and everything was back where they belonged and so sex shouldn’t have been painful but it was me and my partner where having sex and he pulls out almost all the way and slams back in and it hurts a lot almost feels like he is ripping me (not because of size ) like he is going at the wrong angle and because of him pulling out so far it falls out and when he try’s to push back in and he said that from me moving. I explain it was hurting me and he said that was the only way it felt good for him so we had to do it that way. So I am asking for any tips to make it hurt less or if it is true and that the only way it feels good for him.
So any advice from this whole this would be appreciated and I do apologize for the oversharing what sure what was important or not
P.s I have only had sex with him and he before and I never once have cum he is saying it’s bc I am “ to lose” and was wondering if anybody had any advice on that.
Edit- I got a good amount of feedback explaining the situation I am in isn’t a good 1 and he isn’t treating me correctly. With that being said thank you for pointing that out to me but I am still confused on how come it hurt and if you have any advice