I (19M) have had sex a few times. The issue I have is that I hate leaving the women I'm with unsatisfied. I don't think this is a weird issue but it bothers me. I always ask the women I sleep with how I can help to make them cum, because I find that important and very hot to cum at the same time. The problem is that I cum fairly easy after some sex, while she often doesn't of just fingering as foreplay and penetration after. I also often get the the answer that "it is complicated" when I ask how I can help her cum.
Is it strange to ask how to help her cum? Do women not like that when I ask them that? And is it weird to have an feeling of being unsatisfied when I didn't achieve that "goal"?
P.S. I feel pretty uneasy to put this online, so I hope this isn't too personal to ask people and that I can really learn from this.
I don't know if "learn" is the right term but let's go with that.