I’m 26F, when I was younger men were always eager to eat me out. This being said, the past three men I’ve dated absolutely refused to even try it with me regardless of the work arounds that I present (showering before sex, using flavored lube, shaving the day of, etc). My current boyfriend has never even tried because he says he’s grossed out by the thought of it, previous boyfriend tried it once and said he didn’t like having my juices on his face. I talked with my friend group about this and a lot of them have said they’re having similar experiences with difficulty finding men willing to eat them out. I did a search on here and saw several other posts of women having the same issue.
It seems like very few men are willing to do this now. It’s really disappointing as a woman that loves both giving and receiving oral sex (this is not an OF account or anything weird like that, just being honest), but ending up in a position where the only option is giving doesn’t hit the same. I totally get that everyone has their boundaries, but it’s still very disappointing. Has any other women on here had this experience? How did you work around it? Also, if anyone can recommend a toy that mimics the feeling, I would love to know.