For context, I’m 1 year post-grad and a mutual friend of mine posted a photo with a girl I haven’t talked to since we graduated last year. I clicked on her page to see what she’s up to and I see that she removed and unfollowed me. We were pretty good friends in college and we have multiple photos together on our pages. We have a lot of mutual friends as well, but since we’re both graduated and have different jobs in different locations (about 40 minutes away from each other)I doubt we’d ever run into each other again organically. I haven’t spoken to her since December when i texted her a happy birthday and her message back was kind as well. Also, I was friends with this girl for 2 years— my junior and senior year.

Do I text her and ask why she removed and unfollowed me? Could it have been an accident? From what I know, I have nothing against her so I’m confused what happened. I know to an older generation this might not seem like a big deal, but honestly it’s a way to show we’re not on good terms in my opinion. Like I personally would only remove people from my page if I had serious issues with them.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!


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