I (M39) married to my wife (F37) for 6 years now. So i go the worst allergy flare up recently, and it may take weeks to heal (even with meds). I can’t do the normal stuff that i do daily, like chores etc. So I felt betrayed because every time she gets sick or something to do with health,I was there for her for everything. Now I never got downtime like this because it hurts when I do stuff, not like im over reacting or being soft. Leta just say every time i move a body part it bleeds and it will painfull like needles and burns. So she got angry and told me I was useless and all sorts of insults, was banging stuff up in front of our 6 year old and 1 year old. She was having a fit while taking care of the kids and doing the stuff i normally do. So i tried talking to her and try to let her understand.
Long story short kinda not sure where this is going, its like the foundation is weak in this marriage. The bad part is every time i reason with her it will start a fight every time so i let it go her way all the time and just suck it up.
We both work btw I’m not a bum
Sorry for my English it’s not my first language.
Any advice would help, I’m completely lost