Due to health and baby reasons me and husband was having sex on and off for 8yrs . My baby is 23 months and now im ready to be back to normal. He has complained saying i should have allowed him to cheat because he needs what he needs and my whole gripe with it is he not the type to just sex and leave he wants to bond so he dosent have to worry about STDs but then i would be accepting something im not willing to accept . Now that im back to normal a little, i find out u have be going behind my back and having a whole reafor almost a yr . I confront the situation and he hits me with the seless marriage saga . So i try to hit him off at least 4 times out of a 7 day week and he have the nerve to tell me im over doing it and im being extra . And im like well i mond as well go back to before because theres no reason to complain about something and then when i show u love u still complain