So my wife likes to ask me to do things for her when she is right there, but I can be 10+ feet away, it's a "mess" she made (she made something for herself to eat) or any number of things that, from my POV is asking, "why can't you do it?"
If I bring up something that I don't like, she claims I'm starting a fight, she then goes on to blame me for "starting it" and that "it's my fault." She is just blaming me for the argument in general and not even talking about what the problem is.
about 3 weeks ago I hurt my back falling down a few stairs, literally hurt it, but she got in the mood, but because I couldn't do anything, she got huffy, made claims that I don't even try to initiate anymore, ignoring that I was in pain.
Constantly talking over me, correcting me, telling me what I am thinking, what I am feeling, or trying to say even though I dont get to say 90% of what I wanted to at first.
"Once upon a time….." is about as far as I get into what I try to say.