My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 months. I’m 19 and he’s 24. He’s my first partner and the first person I’ve been intimate with, while he had one relationship before me.
Today we showered together for the first time and things got a bit heated. We ended up touching each other. He tried going down on me, but the shower wasn’t really the best place for it, so we just laughed it off. We touched each other instead—he started fingering me and rubbing my clit, and it did feel good. When he went too fast or something hurt (I’m still a virgin), I told him.
What worries me a little is that even though he touched and kissed me for quite a while and I was definitely turned on, I couldn’t finish. It’s a bit frustrating. I told him not to worry, since this is all new to me and it still feels a little strange to have someone else touch me instead of doing it myself. He was able to finish, but I wasn’t.
Any advice? I’m guessing the nerves, plus the fact that we were standing in the shower trying to balance ourselves, probably made it harder for me to get there.
This is all new to me—what would you recommend for future experiences?