So my new gf is a lil pain freak. Im not. Im more of the caring passionate soft kind. Thing is I really really like this girl and want to please her but that style of stuff does NOT come naturally to me. Usually I'm pretty confident in my skills but shes the first one thats requested this.
How do I incorporate this in a natural organic way into our sex life? Any specific things some of you ladies are into that get you off in this way?